I found myself feeling sickened and shocked by this story.
OK .. so he was an idiot. he served his time. I will bet that despite the negative reporting that he "felt the sheer horror and guilt" all the same.
I feel for him and his family. Of course I feel for his friends who did decide to get into that car with him at the time after all. They must have known he was high on cocaine .. surely??? I am not condemning .. but my own instinct would have warned me away all the same. My own kids .. my older ones aged 21-14 .. assure me .. re-assure me. I think I bring them up with a decent grasp of life..and still we worry.
But all the same.. should someone kill him?
NOI It does not release the hurt.. the blame.. the guilt .. the anger .. as there are things which have to be said.. gotten off chest... before it recedes to tacit friendship and a bond of fated circumstance .. which we can turn to positive .. and our salvation .. but only if we allow this.
It takes time. It took us some years to get over.. but we did. We are able to talk of the black hole.. able to be friendly with those who caused this .. able to accept the as friends and even surrogate family/
Hate .. revenge.
It consumes .. exhausts us. Does never help us.
Better then to accept fate. Meet the hurt head on. and LIVE LIFE .. ... never forgetting .. but having learned plenty of positive.
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