malcolmw wrote:
While companies should take reasonable steps to ensure the H&S of their employees (this being the law), in the end, it is the person driving the vehicle who is responsible for their actions. If you are tired - don't drive. I do not accept the "my boss bullied me into doing it" argument.
- Either all road accidents should be investigated by the HSE using a no-blame type system so that we learn the true causes of them
or
- None should be investigated by the HSE.
Mr Macintyre is obviously devastated by the loss of his son and may be looking for someone to blame but we do not know the circumstances of the accident and thus cannot comment.
We can.. T claimed he never saw Jason. He got points on licence and a fine. It seems that jason may have been intent on his cycling . but the driver never saw him.
Under the circumstances .. Jason's father is being very understanding with regard to the driver. He's trying to work out why T never saw him.. and is being very generous minded given his loss in my own opinion here.
Malc. I've been there with Ferdl and then with Vrenchen. I could not ever really put what it felt like into words. We understand more as a result though .. as we realised that blame.. revenge .. anger .. fury .. bitterness.. rather consumed and certainly never helped us heal. I think Jason's father is now on that same recovery curve .. trying to make sense and not condemn the chap who took his son's life .. by act of carelessness or pure misreading or weak risk assessment of the hazard by each party to varying degrees which we will never really know for certain.

.. and this comment does not intend any disrespect to Jason. He may have read things incorrectly and not taken account of "potentially lethal numpty" ahead,. We assume reasoned behaviour ..more than we should so perhaps?
I do not know enough of the "tyrant boss from hell" I suspect he exists though from the comments made by my patients. I think some feel they have to wag tails and tug forelocks. I am not and never have been in such a situation .. nor has my wife.
But we accept that this can be possible based on folk we come across and who open souls to us as we just seem to have that effect on folk who meet us in the real tangible world.