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In gear, thank you for your advice I will certainly check out your COAST. Somehow I managed to miss your post at the time you posted it and have only just seen it. Most helpful thank you very much. Fishman thank you as well your expert advice most welcome and very much appreciated. Thanks to all who have offered their advice and experiences to me.
Flash
and THANK YOU! I really do hope things pan out OK for you. Be sure to mention all mitigating circumstances. Check your licence to see when points expire as well. If you are unlucky and points are still valid - seek out further training and highlight the fact you are keen to learn from mistakes. It may help mitigation.. who knows for sure? But you have to explore each avenue available to you in your situation .. and make sure you LEARN from the hard lessons this time
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Regarding Tesco etc home delivery service. To be honest I'm not sure how this works ( my mother certainly won't do) and for sure my mother cannot use a PC nor does she have access to one. My mother would also find it very difficult if not impossible to order her shopping via the telephone. Apart from essential shopping my mother relies on me to take her to garden centers ( her garden is her pride and joy) to purchase things like large and heavy bags of compost and trays of flowers etc. I know of no garden centre that offers a home delivery service .
Make sure the court is aware of this. I know what you are talking about. My mother in law.. .. dammit!
My wife will not listen to my words of wisdom as regards "care in a residential home" and I understand her .. as the old "bat" is actually a rather sweet and lovely old lady in full reality - like my wife - I do not mind looking after her to be truthful.. Likewise Ted's sister .. Jazz . who looks after a geriatric paraplegic maiden aunt of theirs..and I salute such carers
like Jazz! AND MAYBE YOU from your post here..)
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My mother also relies on me to take her to see my brother who is incapacitated and can't leave his home. He lives approx 20 miles from her and it would be extremely difficult for her to visit him if not impossible without my help by taking and bringing her back in my car. I live 40 mins from my mother and a round trip takes in most of the day for me. Finally all have given me food for thought and been very helpful. I will return my NIP after the weekend well within the allotted time scale, I will of course keep you updated, I am glad I didn't rush into anything and sort advice on here before proceeding with the matter.
Flash .. make sure you get a decent solicitor who can word your mitigating circumstance properly. As regards your driving.. .. seek out a session with an ADI/ You only need an hour or so to correct any bad habits. If you get offered a DIS or SAC - TAkE it! AND LEARN AND BREATHE IN the advice into your driving style!
I wish you well. I hope you will seek help and hope you will read all of the collective gems of good driving practice as advocated by the late Paul Smith
..his bereaved and talented Claire
.. and all who contribute their words of wisdom ..let's see
samandbemn/Steve/toltec/Ernest Marsh/Mad Cats/toltec/botach/malcolm w /|peterE and all the other regulars here.
Whatever happens.. keep us informed and join in all the debates with your opinions. But please learn the COAST message if you keep mobile this time. You owe this to your mother and yourself. If you COAST porperly - you should never fall foul of the law
It;s why I yadder on ad nauseam about it. I am trying to help folk. HONESTLY.