JBr wrote:
I'm amazed that Claire is happy for cars to pass with 2ft clearance. What a horrible, and wholly unnecessary, experience! She obviously has immense faith in those drivers' concern for her wellbeing.
In the same way that I wish to be predictable and safe I also have a certain level of predictable behaviour from other vehicles (not 'just cars' either), however I drive and ride defensively, so I am prepared and thinking about all sorts of possible scenarios. When the slightest variant starts to present I am ready. Mostly I have kept myself safe, when cycling, occasionally I have made mistakes and others around me have too, but with sufficient allowance has seen me walk away from them all with a few bruises etc.
It is about encouraging 'just enough good behaviours to achieve the desired effect - safe travelling for you and everyone around you. Being prepared to (be able to) stop is nearly always better than 'prepared to go'.
By living (travelling) by solid fundamental rules, we retain excellent practical solutions for all that the road throws at us.
JBr wrote:
RobinXe wrote:
Thus it would be the height of selfishness to intentionally obstruct other road users merely to sate one's own subjective perception of danger, particularly when there are alternatives that will offer the same sensation without imposing oneself on others.
I thought we'd done that to death, and that your "get out of my way" view had been comprehensively ridiculed, but there you are again with the same old drivel. Cyclists - know your place!
It is often the case with forums that everyone takes away many different opinions as 'words alone' can be so very misinterpreted. IMHO it is your failure to appreciate that, no Safe Speed member holds that particular belief of
"get out of my way" in the first place, that you seem to have failed to grasp. The
give way and
take, (and
take only when absolutely necessary) is promoted however, and it is this that seems to be ridiculed by some (if I understand correctly). The idea that I should always be in a take position when it is un-necessary, is both selfish as well as potentially dangerous.
You have through your life, as we all have, absorbed a mass of data, that helps to mould us into what we are today. Usually obsessive behaviour has stemmed from fear that then justifies selfishness, as a necessary position in an attempt to retain control/self preservation. This is how the PP seems to have been 'born' and comes across to me, hence why I want to know how it has been developed.
When you drive a huge lorry you sometimes have no choice but to have to ask people to 'give' as you simply are too big to provide any alternative. You then show gratitude and others are grateful.