Icandoit wrote:
galanidt wrote:
The other driver is claiming that this is my fault (or partly so) because they had started the overtaking manoeuvre of the stationary vehicle) and I should have waited!
For the posters who think that is is somehow a 50/50 'problem' and again presuming galanidt to be correct in explaining what happened, how does the attitude of the other driver affect '
being safe is always better than being right'?
In some ways I see this case is better in being right than being safe as there were no reported injuries while continuing to accept the sort of arrogant disregard of the rules of the road (as reported of the other driver) do no-one any favours if allowed to continue.
I say good for galanidt. Stick with it, copy the relevant page of the new Highway Code and send it to your insurers (if necessary) and hold out for full settlement against this sort of ignorant and aggressive stupidity from a driver who is unwilling to follow the simple instructions in our rules of the road.
BTW I'm fine about 'breaking rules' and do it myself quite often, but you have to be aware of the potential problems that you face if you do. The other driver is totally incorrect in thinking that the oncoming driver has to give way to them and to act as if they should to the point of impact.
This needs exploring. Not urgently, because hopefully neither of us will encounter a similar situation for a little while
I used to feel this way for the first, probably 10 years of my driving lifetime. Certainly five, staunchly. I don't now. Not even remotely. I couldn't tell you how, when or why I changed to the opposite position, or whether it happened gradually. However, I have most definitely changed from one camp to the other.
I know several drivers at work (as drivers) and, of those for whom I have high respect and regard, this is the one aspect that generally sets us apart. Perhaps this attitude exists less so when the stakes are a potential head-on crash, but certainly when the stakes are a side swipe and the "victory" is a place or two in a queue of merging traffic or at bustling mini roundabouts, it is almost gratuitous.
Ok, let's take it one step at a time. You come slowly around the corner and see, perhaps 3 seconds in front of you, a lorry parked on the other side of the road. At the same time, a car pulls out to pass it. He should have seen you, but either didn't or misread your speed and thought he could make it. Anyhow, he's not too good at reversing or judging his car's width/absolute horizontal position - might be getting on a bit in years or might be a recent test pass. either way, he keeps coming. Three principal options are open to you:
1) You could easily chink left and pull up - you may have to brake a bit harder than usual but were going reasonably slowly anyhow.
2) You could do so and make it tight by going forward another second before braking.
3 Or you could keep going.
I can't prove it, but I am guessing in the specific case, the OP tried the middle option, but either misjudged it and didn't quite leave room or the miscreant coming toward him was not sufficiently skilled to thread through the reduced slalom course. I also estimate that veery few would adopt option 3, but a worryingly high percentage (including me 25 years ago) would adopt option 2.
Ok; scenario two now. You come around the same corner, same speed. A lorry is parked in the same place. However, this time, the lorry is twice as long and the car coming toward you is already alongside the back part of it, but thanks to road curvature you only realise this at exactly the same time in relative terms as he pulled out in the earlier example. The dice are now loaded in an identical manner.
You still have the three choices. This time, far more people - you included probably - will adopt option 1 - brake and give the "miscreant" room.
What's the difference - aparat from avoiding an accident one way and not the other? Attitude.
Teaching him a lesson in the first instance might in a minuscule number of cases drive home that he was in the wrong which he may not otherwise realise. However, there is every chance that he would know that already though given that you would have stopped for him anyway in Option 1.
Thoughts?