I was a friend of Nin.
MGBGT Thankyou.
Ed, Nins dad blames himself for not going to pick her up, he feels he failed as a father. Imagine living with that for the rest of your life.
Even though IT WAS NOT HIS FAULT.
You can't say that if he drunk and drove she would still be alive.
If he had gone, it could of been him in a car crash and he could have died leaving Nin without her dad.
He could of hit someone else and some other poor parents could have lost their child.
She could have left 5 minutes earlier, she could have stayed out.
She could have stayed in.
The fact is, it happened. And there is nothing that could have changed that.
The only person to blame is Lucas Sonta.
He chose to drink and drive and look at what happened.
Ed made the decision to abide by the law and not drink and drive.
It's heartbreaking seeing Ed in such a state, his life is so empty because he believes it's his fault his daughter is out of his life.
Nothing can changed what happened. And her family, her friends all wish it hadn't have happened, but NO-ONE can say if he had broke the law and picked her up that she would have survived.
It's her 19th birthday tomorrow.
Think of her parents and little Carys.
And I pray Ed never see's this site and what people have said, because that would completely break him. It's people like that and newspapers that have made him believe he is too blame.
He made the right decision.
Sonta didn't.
xxx