Rigpig wrote:
basingwerk wrote:
there is no requirement at all to say thanks, except for those who are engaged with social niceties rather than getting on with the job.
Oh have a day off will you! Even in this day of gratuitous rudeness, ignorance, and having two fingers stuck up one by appalling drivers who think they are empowered to enforce the rules of the road, people still feel a sense of self-worth when offered praise or thanks.
Pipe down yourself - I hate road slobs as much as anyone else, but talk is cheap, RigPig, and it’s better to show your appreciation for humanity with good driving behaviour (like obeying the speed limit), not by vainly flashing lights to every Tom, Dick and Henriette that we pass.
Praise or thanks are only any good if they mean something. When everybody is anxious to praise or thank people for just doing their job, the praise and thanks are empty gestures. Indeed, the softies (poor souls) even get offended when praise and thanks is not continuously offered to them for merely doing their duty.
Rigpig wrote:
And whilst it may not form a part of 'getting the job done', it certainly goes a long way to elevating the general appreciation that life really is worth living; its not just a slog commuting to a job whose a management offer no encouragement amidst a populace that never acknowledges acts of kindness.
I did not say that I never acknowledge acts of kindness – I often do if it is over and above the call of duty. I don’t make habitual, empty, self-obsessive gestures that do us no good at all, if you think about it.