Dr L wrote:
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The point that Nos4r2 was trying to make with his succinct comment was that stupid behaviour in a dangerous place can have substantial adverse consequences. For you to interpret all the things you did from that single word indicates a very emotional imagination.
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No, mate. I read that comment the way it was written. completely glibly and insensitively. The man has been given the opportunity to rephrase his observation (which he has to an extent) and apologise where appropriate for any offense he mayhave caused - but seeing as he won't appologise for any any offense not intended to be caused, one can only assume that the bloke wanted to cause offence!
I am not the only one to have taken umbrage at that CRASS comment. Still at least between you you've worked out you lack the spunk to attend the funeral and utter it to the mourners - I don't have to wonder why, do I?
And for the record - what happened at Dunblane was a tragedy in itself. But I think removing hand guns from everyone else in the country was completely over the top, unfair, innapropriate, unnecessary and has not actually worked with regards to gun crime.
As you have all said - none of us actually know each other so putting these beliefs into my mouth and then slagging me off for them is well, pathetic.
For the record. If I'd been drinking in a bar when such a story came on the telly, and someone with, I presume, the grin of a cheshire cat, had come out with such a comment - shall we just say a 'breach of the peace' may have come about.
I am more than happy to address all the issues. And as I have said, on the face of it, it would appear the boy was ultimately responsible for his own demise - along with other factors such as lack of parental control, etc, etc, etc, etc. I can accept most if not all the arguments.... What I find distasteful in its entirety is the smug 'having a laugh' comments. The kid may well have been a little shit. He may well have been on course to become a juvenile delinquent. But having a laugh over the demise of such a child at that age is just not on. It's crass, offensive, inappropriate!
What was said didn't need to be said - I think every single one of us understands that playing on very fast roads, not paying attention to the hazards and dicing with death is risky to say the least. The boy has paid the ultimate price for his folly. Let us not revel in it, eh?
It's very, very sad. I hope the example of what has happened to him can be relayed to all the local children there with the warning not to play on the roads.... Not as fodder for inconsiderate, chuck away comments about Darwinism.