darren wrote:
... just some tips or advice on being a safer driver. I know this is vast, so many things I could do. But I could do with advice from more experienced drivers...(I hope that makes sense)
Yes sure it makes total sense ... I wish many more new drivers sought assistance and knowledge.

SafeSpeedv2 wrote:
Can I assume that you have been told to stick to the speed limits?Do you think that makes you 'safe'?
darren wrote:
Yep, I've heard this a lot. And I do agree with it, apart from the obvious of looking at my speedometer constantly. And I do stick to it.
When you say that you 'stick to it' - are you saying that you try to keep UP to the max limit ? As in say a 40 you try to drive at 39/40 ?I do not believe in purely sticking to the limit and it certainly does not make you as 'safe as you can be'. If you can drive along, so that you can STOP (on your side of the road), in the distance that you can see to be CLEAR in. Now clear means totally free of all hazards.
You slow when you see potential hazards and stop if necessary or perhaps drop your speed to 3 - 5 mph even, if things are really busy or great danger, stopping available in the clear distance in front of your car.
SafeSpeedv2 wrote:
Have you been told a LOT about potential hazards and trying to anticipate as much as possible?
darren wrote:
Yep, heard this a lot too. And I try to follow it.
How do you try to follow it ? What methods have you been taught to help you in this task ?
SafeSpeed wrote:
While you were learning were there areas that you felt less sure about ?
darren wrote:
I'm ok with driving local, where I live. But as soon as I go to towns or cities I get really nervous. With all the lanes and traffic lights, I get easily confused and stressed out. Same with motorways. Also I find it hard to join dual carriageways. I find it difficult to see if other cars are coming and if I have the space to join.
OK, now to me your instructor should have taken you to unknown areas deliberately to help you realise that your knowledge can apply easily to all other areas with little differences except layout and prior knowledge to layouts. To a degree it is experience that will help you 'believe' that your basic skills will help you to cope and manage 'fine' in new areas.
BUT the reason that you
MAY be feeling uncomfortable is that you are going too fast for you brain to process all the things that are on the road ahead. Slow to a speed that gives you time to scan and process. You might consider a 'P' plate - just to help others realise that you are possibly slow at reacting that more experienced drivers. It is noticed and respected by others.
Getting nervous will do nothing to increase your confidence and right now that is 'fragile' you need good, regular non-event driving experiences.
The nervousness might be 'just' lack of a bit of confidence, but it could be that you are driving beyond your abilities. Generally we can all enter this 'over confident' times, and if we ask ourselves we can feel uncomfortable if we are honest. So how to drive within one's confidence and ability, driver slower !

That gives you, vital, time to process the road ahead (and all about you), leaving the 2 sec Min gap gives you space to have room to use up when you need it (& be assured you will now and again) / time to react,gives you time to run through a pattern of scanning.
I don't know what you might have been taught but I use : check the far distance of the road ahead (in heavy traffic always check several cars ahead and work back towards your car), (not just glancing but really looking for any steering from the front wheels, car position and angle (going to turn left, or right), if any indicators or brake lights are on - note people/ dogs in vehicles), seeing where the road goes (up down, left right), note if all the cars in front are all bunched up together (if so try to allow a little more than 2 sec gap) that warns you that if anything happens they will likely all bump into each other and you need to ensure you look at all of them to give yourself the earliest waring possible so that you have the greatest time possible to react. Safety is often about fore warning and being fore armed !

To recap & continue; check far distance of road and work back towards your car, check your mirrors, left and right of your car, then about every 5th of these, scans check your instruments, fuel, speed, revs, temp. As you drive to check your speed rapidly try and learn where your needle sits on certain speed so that you can learn to see it out of the corner of your eye. (you can try this while sitting still in neutral and have a go with the revometer - if you have one of course & of course if you still have 'needles' than a digital panel).
SafeSpeedv2 wrote:
I can recommend that you obtain more training.
darren wrote:
I will look into this, thanks.
There is the IAM, or specific individuals that can take you out, for different types of training, then going to 'courses' but they all vary from about £40 to £100's ...
darren wrote:
Lol, I couldn't concentrate with the music on the first week or so I was driving on my own so I had to keep it off. Now I keep it on but I switch it off when I get to town.
Very wise and sensible.

darren wrote:
I normally leave more than a 2 second gap between me and the car in front, but I read somewhere else (I think, might be confused about something else) that this can be dangerous because of overtaking or something?
Overtaking is a whole thread in itself so I'll leave that for the minute - but some people have recommended that you close the gap between you and the vehicle in front before you overtake ....I cannot think of why someone would ever recommend not leaving a 2 sec gap in normal driving situations.
How do you get on with parking and reversing? (esp in tight gaps)..