Big Tone wrote:
I agree there is a difference Mole but, unless I misunderstand what you’re saying, I can’t agree.
Yeah, we've had this one before, I think. We're not worlds apart - in that I obviously don't think using a hand-held mobile (never mind texting!) whilst driving is a
good thing! Where we differ, I think, is that I'm not in favour of an "automatic" assumption that it's the case - i.e. that the driver using the phone is
automatically to blame. Don't get me wrong, most of the time they probably will be and will deserve the book getting thrown at them, but for me, the automatic assumption of anything is the start of a slippery slope when it comes to really getting to the bottom of things and improving road safety. It's a bit like the automatic assumption that the driver who was exceeding the speed limit was at fault. He may or may not have been. The problem (for me) is that if you make that assumption too often, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. There's a public perception (which, I say again, is generally correct!) that using a mobile whilst driving is dangerous. Then you get a few headline cases where it indeed seems to have been the case, and then before you know it, the whole thing is taken as read and nobody looks any further. When that happens, every subsequent accident involving a mobile doesn't get investigated any further, so before you know it, EVERY accident where one of the parties was using a hand-held becomes the phone user's fault - which, in turn feeds the assumption that they're dangerous - and so the vicious circle continues.
Big Tone wrote:
So if the driver is getting a BJ but it’s not the cause of him crashing, the fact that he was getting a BJ doesn’t matter or it’s somehow okay? (I know that’s not what your saying but it’s not a great leap is it?).
Probably worth going to prison for though...
One a more serious note though, there are adequate laws in place to prosecute someone who caused an accident whilst being thus "distracted". Why do you suppose using a hand-help mobile is a specific offence and getting a you-know-what isn't?
Big Tone wrote:
The bottom line for me, when I’m driving, is the driving itself and it’s
that which I should be concentrating on. To turn it around the other way, you wouldn’t start reading a text during sex would you? No, of course not. I’ll look at the text after I’ve finished; in about four hours...

And here, is where we must diverge - else I wouldn't have a radio in my car! For me, (and I think most people, to be honest) using 100% of one's attention to do anything (including driving) is exhausting. A couple of hours maybe? For me, it's about using "enough" attention to do the job safely.