fisherman wrote:
teabelly wrote:
Often something as simple as asking who you are in a better tone rather than the gruff tone would lead to more positive results
Perhaps the police should add a "nice tone of voice" test to the recruitment procedure. They would also need to ensure that any officer with a sore throat communicates by written message to avoid upsetting members of the public with his gruff voice.
Ah .. but politeness still costs nothing and achieves good results. I find it a bit of a worry that complaints are increasing.. a alleged 10% rise complaining more of the manners or lack of them displayed. Complaints of "stop/search" have also increased .. but as the report said - I think this might be in line with the increased powers to do so. However, a lot of misunderstandings can be resolved just by adopting a polite, but professional attitude. I recall IG commenting on here and to us in person - that being rude - even if they were being aggressive towards him at the time, was counter-productive and could even undermine a case against the person arrested if he rose to their baiting.
It is a good job that we are related to

and understand their professional stresses and need to let off steam at times though

When we post up something "negative" we find in the press - we are not necessarily BiB BASHING

but giving

chances to give their side. I have to say I do not buy the "exemption cop out" clause all the same
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Anyway .. back to this thread's topicI have lots of means to identify myself at any one time about my person. I have my ID card for the hospitals I work in. I have a pass to allow me to park in the staff car parks.. which I PAY for .. which all NHS staff INCLUDING NURSES AND PORTERS pay for

I am more concerned for the staff than me.. It's a chunk oout of pay when all is said and done..

But that off topic sub rant apart ... I have a card in the car which identifies my car and me as "entitled to park in that bay"

The paper bits relating to our cars are in the safe with the all the other legal documents relating. . (Both me and Wildy have an expensive hobby .. we
adore old cars

- Moggies.. Stags and we also keep stuff for the family. We showed off a couple at Sizergh not so long ago

) I bought a neat folder to house such "family documents" from Lakeland in Windermere a couple of years ago. It was on their "bargain counter". Lakeland are an innovative company. They modify as constant - but you can get their older versions which are jolly good ideas at bargain snips. Folder houses all documents and is the size to put flat in a small safe (also bought as "end of season"

)
I do not see why I need to have all the original paperwork relating to these cars on my person though. As Claire says .. a problem if wallets or bags or even cars with the documents in the glove compartment or under the seat .. are stolen
I have a card which allows me into a lurgy research lab.. as I do do some research work into the lurid lives of a "lurgy". This also identifies me to those who need to know such
My wife, Wildy

carries similar documents.
I also have about my person .. a debit card. This identifies me as a person able to pay for stuff with this card .. which is supposedly safe because of its little chip and pin number.
Looking through my wallet .. I have cards which tell folk I am allowed to borrow from our local public library... hire DVDs from Blockbusters..

.. couple of receipts.. couple of letters addressed to me at home address.
In other words.. I have loads of stuff which identify me at any one time. I do not need any other card to worry about. I have enough already.
Incidentally .. my passport is also kept in the safe. I get it out when I need it.

to travel.. abroad.