weepej wrote:
adam.L wrote:
She might be a bitch and not deserve to get the child support

What, your daugher?
This is a subject
very close to my heart weepej: -
When I was taken to the cleaners by this country back in 1997, I was working myself into an early grave to support myself and help my daughter.
I worked my way into a job as Works Manager for a small company, often putting in 60+ hours a week. I had always had a tacit agreement whereby I paid my 'ex' cash in hand every week when I picked my daughter up on Saturday mornings.
At the time, my ex was getting £30 a week in benefit for two children, (only one was mine). After the CSA got involved, thanks to my
lovely ex, eventually I had to ask my boss to let me go because I couldn't afford to work for him anymore. I was served a ‘deductions at earnings’ order for £78 per week.
Where was the £48 per week going and the £3000 they wanted in a lump sum do you suppose?
I was working for nothing and that is not an exaggeration! I couldn’t afford to keep my dilapidated old car to pick up my daughter at the weekends, or treat her like I always had. My ex wasn't getting a penny more than she ever had but now the Gov was getting richer while pushing the notion that all these errant fathers were suddenly being brought to justice.
Depressed and disillusioned with MY COUNTRY I left to go to America where I continued to transfer money back to a malicious ex wife taking advantage of a bent government hell-bent on getting money from whoever they could!
Some fathers even committed suicide during that dreadful and iniquitous time, but I don't expect many would remember that period if it didn't affect you or someone close to you

It was
supposed to get errant fathers. What bollocks!!! They found the honest while the errant remained just that...
Leaving my family behind was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. The last day I saw my daughter before leaving to go abroad she was crying in my arms telling me "I don't want you to go daddy". (Imagine how that feels, if you or anyone else here can?)
I'm sorry weepej, I think I know you well enough to know you weren't being flippant or have meant your post to upset anyone. But just be aware that it touches a
very raw nerve for some of us

My ex wife
was a bitch and the Government does
not always do what is right or fair and the sooner people recognise this, the better it will be for us all.
Don't underestimate what you are capable of if or when your country starts to legislate against you or rip you off!