Big Tone wrote:
This doesn’t make sense, and I sense there is something more or deeper. You are not on trial and you do not have to reply of course. But for someone who I like and respect for your knowledge and humour, I have to confess you have floored me today...
Likewise . The following is said as a dog lover ,who acknowledges that folks can have a fear of dogs ,and in the best interests of dogs seeks to address that .
Fear of dogs is something I've never had( but something I've seen and detest -dogs are on the whole ,friendly sociable man loving animals) . I've had dogs from my first recollection . So perhaps that's why I'm not frightened of any dog ,irrespective of size ,possibly something I inherited from my parents ( Dad was a postman for about 15 years ,taking on a round from a dog hating predecessor.In my youth I used to drove the sub postmasters van with the large things on board , helping him in his work and after a short spell ,I noticed a string of dogs following him .At each house he was welcomed by a dog . Any dog showing animosity was quickly brought to heel by the pack ).
But dogs need to be respected . If you have a fear of dogs, then realise that a dog will sense this and dependant on the breed ,may just growl or worse . But on the other hand ,dogs have grown up in a human community and are now just like social humans . Meet a dog - it wants to sniff you - it's finding out about you .If you've got a dog ,then it'll most possibly be very friendly ( and if you've got a tit bit - as the girls say "you're in"). Otherwise ,it might wait to see if you're friend or foe . ( ONLY the nasty ones do otherwise) . But if a dog growls( or the hair on it's back rises) , back off -it's saying "I'm not sure ,please give me space".Usually it's a case of the dog having a fear of you , and allowing it to decide that you pose no threat will make it decide to be a friend .
Hope this might help