Pete317 wrote:
Big Tone wrote:
Better to be single and wonder what good loving may be just around the corner than stuck in a loveless relationship with a boring old hag.
Unfortunately, short of winning the lottery I'm stuck with it.

Well, I respectfully disagree mate and I would dearly love you to have been in my shoes on the good days I have. If I may call upon my own personal experiences, I know there is someone out there for everyone if you are prepared to drop your guard and if you really want to find it. Seriously, I have seen it more times than I care to remember. I have a true story or two...
I may have mentioned that I work in the caring profession
Love match #1. Many years ago I saw, for the first time, a dear lady who, as my Rehab doctor at work describer her, you would describe as "hideously crippled". This was about eight years ago now I would say. Despite being wheelchair-bound and needing everything done for her she leads a great and fulfilled life. She cannot speak and uses a system to manage a computer.
http://www.eyegaze.com/Her husband, a fine and handsome gentleman and as healthy and able-bodied as they come helps her and they enjoy a loving, kind, respectful and faithful marriage. It wasn’t until a couple of years ago that I found out he married her in that condition. (I thought they would have met when they were young and she developed a degenerative condition and he stuck by her side. Not so at all.)
Love match #2. A man I met early on when I started in The Health & Care Service had a brain stem stroke at the age of 30 or 31, (I can’t remember exactly). He was married and has a lovely son but this life-changing event condemned him to a life as a vegetable and his wife soon went off the scene. He cannot talk or indeed do anything except communicate and operate his environment via an Environmental Control System, which is where I come in use with the use of some great products.
http://www.possum.co.uk/ &
http://www.rslsteeper.com/ in conjunction with the one I mentioned above.
His carer fell in love with him and while he may not be able to live a life like you or I could or can, it’s lovely to be loved and it can happen to absolutely anyone, anytime in life, and the only time love dies for you is when you turn your back on it. It is there, for everyone, but it doesn’t come knocking on your door and goodness knows you are likely to get burned along the way. But when you find it – it’s the best feeling on Earth! And it may sound strange coming from me but it can come from the love of another human, the love of life, or your faith in God.
(Had a tear there as I was writing that if I’m honest)I know you are loved just as we all are

I drifted. I must be a mod nightmare sorry.
"I shall pass this way but once...." And if I'm on my motorbike it could be pretty damn quick!
Take care all.
Love Tone
