crw wrote:
And reality is that some cannot face, there are arrogant sh*tes in each of the groups be it drivers, riders or pedestrians.
Liebchen 
You redeem most esteemedly
But.. ist the difficult one to sort - nicht?
We have the yob culture everywhere.. even in Switzerland where we had lads mooning bare bottoms at speed cams.. digging them up und tossing them into field. These are the mild ones. The silly things some do. (They had not the brain to make reg plate indecipherable in first case und failed to remove the negs in the second..

Kids

Or perhaps not really "criminals" but anger at automation perhaps.
But from the high spirits of daft youthful "hi-jinx" - which amount to the same of problem perhaps of reckless youth but without intended malice - we run into the arrogant

who will behave as such no matter if on foot, roller skates, skateboard, horse, bicycle, motorbike, or in vehicle.
Our real problem ist how to tackle these.. nicht?
We have ACPO suggesting police officer based at each school to try to rein in these kids before they start to become problem. We even had Drony Tony's vision of logging the potential trouble maker from foetal stages .. but I do not know how we do this .. und in any case .. perhaps we should be monitoring the single teenage mama a lot better than we are - or even trying to stop her from seeing this as her only "career option" in life.
It a tough one. We have to motivate towards achieving toppest potentials. We cannot dictate any more than we can dictate everyone eat their five portions of fruit und veg with a moderate sweety or savoury sinful morsel. It has to be the tactful persuasion with a lot of education und I agree to some extent with compulsory cooking as life skill. I should be posting this in a ranty soapbox thread really.. but cycling forum ist also to do with promoting healthy life style all the same .. even if on allegedly or perceived "haunt for us car lovers"

I would say it should start at home. but we have a generation who cannot or will not be "bovvered" to contend with too.

School our kids (including adopted und also our tempo or long term fostered if they allow this for these) attend have compulsory cookery in Years 7-8. This become option in Year 9. It become compulsory again in Year 13 for one half term module as part of "prepare for Uni life skill" for one 60 minute double lesson time.
I think it possible to reach these very awkward teenagers .. but only if prepared to to apply firm, but very fair und friendly discipline to them- but to reach out to them quickly at first signs of trouble.
Our "foster from hell" - he was our first really difficult challenge. Aged 15.. with bad history... we had an initial nightmare und a baptism in fire. It took endless work .. but we now have a young man training to be a plumber .. who does not suck in his teeth in
that way..

und who take pride in his driving too. He now IAM driver.

to him.
But perhaps he reacted to calm but determined feline attitude

in a very family orientated lifestyle. Maybe this "lack of very traditional family values" ist a part of problem. Buying gifts, treats, caving into every whim does not make a child happy or at ease with its lot whether traditional husband/wife/co-habitpartners of whatever chosen lifestyle.
But perhaps Wayne was just decent. His own Mama ist so. His Papa died. He got in with wrong lot. She struggled to cope.
So our problem ist still revolving around how we break down the yob culture along with yob peer pressures too.
I do not know how we as society can tame these kids/arrogant little

types with small brains und their own perceived knobs to match perhaps.
. I think we need to discuss properly. Maybe we collectively put across some suggestions which can work.