Rigpig wrote:
Mad Moggie wrote:
Hence worries that sometimes the photo will not show the actual . but an implied "mouthing or gurning at the lolly chap" when the request to "shut up" might just be aimed at the rogue in the rear here. Lip reading "shut up" on film could be interpreted as saying something else here.

Well I'll give you one thing MM, you are working hard to contrive what is IMHO an unlikely scenario here

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If someone in a car is aiming abuse at
you standing outside it is obvious; they have to move their head and body to make eye contact, even lean forward to look under the top of the windscreen below the visor, they look directly at you, there is a context and reason why they might be doing so. It doesn't just happen in a vacuum and, as a result, some video or an image might be taken as 'evidence'.
You would be amazed at how I can "twist und manipulate family photos und camcorder stuff" to make Mad Doc look daft

I usually succeed too

purrrrrrrrrr!
If cam on head - attached to cap or within the lolly -it can depend on turn of the head or angle of the lolly cam und it could indeed make person look "guilty" if caught at wrong angle. It how the pappazzi get the celebs to look as they do sometimes. The snarling photos of Heather Mills were carefully cropped und edited to publish at worst light .. likewise those very drunken photos of a most bleary eyed Amy Whinehouse seemed to be selected specifically in the frames or stops at which the rapid clickety clicks of the shutters fired. (it not that I defend these wimmin as they perhaps epitome of "chavdom at celeb levels"

- but I do think all photos can be manipulated or interpreted untowardly. )
Now whilst we like our lolly folk around here und they are usually nice gentle courteous Northern rural souls - I can well see how frustration on each side can occur.
For example (from the PH thread on this topic) und one which I have seen in the towns...
Lolly chap/chappesse just walks into road from behind a parked white van .. which causes a problem for approaching driver who cannot see the lolly lady behind the parked metal. She would have been better placed at the zebra crossing a few yards beyond this van.

Then there ist the one who will let one child cross. Then move back to kerb.. let ONE car pass und then stop the next car whilst allowing the next child to cross. It would be more sensible then if he or she can see parents und children approaching to wait 2-5 minutes with the first child und then stop the traffic.
Or worse still the one who stops the traffic und then [i]stands there for a full 5-10 minutes waiting for some children who are approaching to reach und cross. Inevitably .. they cross the road earlier because one side has NO traffic und the other side are now in a standing queue..

Now it this sort of thing which I think create some of the abusive nonsenses as it seem lack of consideration/common sense on part of this type of lolly person to be fair minded und thinking of all the scenario which you do hear actually occurring.
I think then that perhaps the lolly folk do need some better training in many places as these are the adults who will be inspirational in teaching children how to cross a road safely in any case.
Riggers wrote:
Look, I'm as dismayed as you are that someone somwhere believes that arming these individuals with cameras because of abuse they receive form the public, but what else could be done?
But if the person mouthing the abuse can show that the lolly person's behaviour of the unreasonable type - then there may be "mitigation"

Personally, I think we should be teaching manners und really trying to return to genteel courtesy.
Bringing back proper family life -such as simply sitting down to family meal at table..

Neighbourliness.. all this consolidates decent values

We are losing these skills by our somewhat too rushy rush.. long hours.. wannahavitall now ;; RIGHT NOW life styles.
Bring back model making.. airfix.. scalextric.. REAL TOYS .. board games - traditional ones

These also part of the lost worlde - along with sport und walks und so on. These are the things which bring back family life to steadier more genteel pace und speaking as Mama of far too large a family at times

- this does keep us to evenest of keels und directions .. soothing.

balances which mean I can dunk doughnuts into a saucer of milk
Of course - it ideal worlde - but if we can do it?

.. then it possible.

It might take a while to educate our chavs who splodge around bare- middriff.. builders' bum jeans with an eye on the benefits cheques though

Riggers wrote:
Get rid of them altogether? Perhaps, if pelican crossings or overpasses could be erected at sites where regular foottraffic occurs on schooldays. Obviously at some public expense.
But a lot of lolly folk man pelican crossings

Or are positioned at zebras.. traffic lights.. Toucans..
Riggers wrote:
Tell them to grow some backbone and just put up with it? At which point they decide they are too old to put up with crap from ignorant morons and jack it in!
I think the mumpty drivers are perhaps the worst offenders. Unfortunately, these will have the worst type of spoiled kittens in car und they will vent frustrations ..but within car - apart from cross look at being delayed .. I do not think lolly will hear the naughty words if being muttered

A Stinkfinger in my country has always been something you can be prosecuted for though

Und there no excuse for the Stinkfinger or sticking head out of window to shout abuse either.

Or even ignoring the lolly person as this ist

Schchchtttttt-oppPPPPP!
Riggers wrote:
Bin the whole concept of trying to shepard schoolkids across the road and make it a free-for-all?
Tell their parents to take them in the car and join everyone else on the roads in the morning
Pretend it isn't really a problem and ignore it.
Would we prefer the even more rigid US system of the school bus which one
must not pass whilst it is picking up and setting down kids on the morning run?
Actually - it would be a lot better to organise a walking or cycling bus with the parents in a rota perhaps .. or get them on the school bus
This would cut out some mumpty morons ... und lolly person will be shepherding more kids at once across instead of holding up traffic for 5 minutes .. und then 5 minutes und then.. 5 minutes..
I do not mind the US system which similar to Swiss system in this aspect
Ultimately the best end result would be to make folks realise they shouldn't behave like this in the first place, but our competitive and 'me first' society that seems like a long way off.
Riggers wrote:
So I am still keen to know what measure folks think we should take to to fix these problems, rather than constantly carping on about what we don't want.
I have tried to think of how to set worlde straighter here, Riggers, my
