basingwerk wrote:
SafeSpeed wrote:
The thing that I simply cannot get my head around is the 'la la la; I'm not listening' part. I've written. I've telephoned. I've emailled. I've offered meetings and presentations. But they ignore everything. You would think that anyone genuine in road safety would want to explore All ideas. All options. All opinions.
Maybe they are suspicious of you. Maybe they wonder exactly why you’re
making out you’re a road safety saint, as if you’re personally involved?
Believe me basingmate.. I have been there.. a member (now ex) of Brake. These people have revenge and raw emotion in common. I admit that when I nearly lost Wildy.. and when we lost her cousin.. that emotion and pain were at "white heat levels" and "searing". You do not know what it feels like .. no more than Paul. We do .. that's why I think we are better equipped to speak out.
I cannot ever
ever describe the anger I felt over a request ot use photos of Wildy's car and the injuries as part of an anti-speed campaign. It was not speed .. even though that car struck my wife's car in excess of 80 mph. Guy was taken ill.
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They wonder why you are determined to save a few lawbreakers from
getting their punishment, while their world is falling apart?
We are talking about the insanity of replacing cops with automation and no advice or training to improve skills.
We are talking of road deaths remaining static and even increasing in some areas as a result of this automation and no attempt to improve a standard.
We are talking of hospital A&E stats and original police stats making one heck of a wound caused by a dropped suture in road safety policies by showing the true sorry picture of a failed road safety policy ;... which leaves thousands more cyclists and other road users as SI and a higher than ever toll for cyclist Ks.
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they think you’d be MUCH better off joining the Samaritans and saving
people that way, leaving the road safety stuff to the professionals and the
cops, instead of stirring up trouble with “mondeo-man” on the Internet.
Perhaps that's the way forward for BRAKE and ROADPEACE as they do a lot to help victims cope with bereavement. The real danger is that they encouraage brooding and blaming.. whilst nothing is done to help the traaumatised person whose mistake caused the incident. All are victims .. and all need help to cope with the trauma of accident.