Icandoit wrote:
WildCat wrote:
There ist a difference. He showed these to reporters who wrote up the piece und managed to identify the victims in the papers. This caused them untoward publicity und rekindled their grief without warning.
So you think that the difference is simply that the fatality was identifiable to the next-of-kin? If they were not would the use of pictures of fatal road incidents have been acceptable?
It ist called manners und courtesy. I was asked if photos of my injuries could be used once. My family refused und we refused on Ferdl's behalf as well. They wanted to use them as a "speed issue". Had the photos been destined to show what happen if you drive whilst feeling poorly (as happen when man taken ill und collide with my car) or drive a defective vehicle - with tragic result as was the case with Ferdl who die when lorry with dodgy everything hit him at low speeds ..then perhaps. But even then .. you have to also take into account the other parties feelings und the lorry driver was suicidal apparently after Ferdl's fatal incident - und widow of man who struck my car with some force was also in severest guilt trauma of not stopping him from going to work for longest time.
So .. there are other considerations... as to how such release of data affect all parties involved.
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Who told the family about the use of the pictures? Not Brunstrom (or the NWP) - it was 'the press'. They need not have reported the contents of a meeting so graphically. Does that not make the press, perhaps in their attempts to discredit Brunstrom, just as culpable?
But this was a PR meeting with JOURNALISTS. Journalists report things und editors go for publishing something they think in public interest... und there ist the public interest element of gory death as a result of rather - I think I had better call it - a "red misted ride" for the family's sake as they could well lurk on this site.
There was also the public interest element of a senior police officer calling a conference with the press - knowing full well they would publish the detail und the public interest of a senior police officer yet again having zero regard for family feelings - which ist absurd since he claim his crusade against drivers ist to prevent grief und trauma.. und not add to it all the more. Und the apparently naivety und poor judgement in doing this.
Ist a bit like the late Princess of Wales letting the press know her whereabouts und then moaning when they turn up to take photos of her.

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WildCat wrote:
.. there ist a difference in that war inevitably means harsh brutality. But this was a matter of a road accident...
It was not an 'accident'. You often get 'harsh brutality' when people can't think through the consequences of their actions properly. It was reported that the rider was unlicensed, uninsured and riding a 1300cc Suzuki superbike on the wrong side of the road at some speed.
I don't doubt that his own disregard for (some of) the 'law' lead to his demise. Do you?
As said .. I am aware that the family may lurk on this site.. ist why I call it "red mist" to be tactful
Whether or not he was legal or illegal und we have always pointed out that these are involved in most gory fatals. Mad Doc reports up most of them from the papers from the big 'burbs as we call them
But even so .. he did not deserve to die like that und the manner in which this conference was convened und the parading of that T shirt und so on ... seemed to pour scorn on the deceased which ist still a
Und the family had apparently not told the widow und her children exactly what happened to her husband as they judged it would be too much trauma for her to cope with at the time of his death..
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WildCat wrote:
This was a family who sought to shield its young from the horrid manner of their father's death until perhaps they were older und better equipped to deal with this.. und suddenly faced with this in the papers

It may not be pleasant, but avoiding the actuality doesn't remove the issues. And again, don't you see that this is also a matter for the press to consider?
Except they may not have been aware that this was so at time it went to press.. learning only of the gaffe when the family protested.
There are any number of photos which have the consent for use by all parties. Und that family should have been contacted in any case.
People are funny about the remains und memory of their loved ones.. even if not on "straight und narrow ... moral.. und ethical und so on". People objected to the removal of their child's organs at Alder Hey.. even having funeral services for these returned remains und burying or cremating und interring/scattering where main body laid to rest. Und we have the debacle now with organs removed from deceased workers from local nuclear power plant.. taken without consent.
Then there ist the issue over donated organs... und next of kin do not always consent even if the deceased express desire to that way.
So .. people in general thus have very strong ideas about the remains, images und memories of those they loved very much in life .. und this ist why they should have been contacted for consent first. I am sure that if the question had been put tactfully und image used very discreetly und tactfully .. in say .. a Speed Awareness or other educational course und not as subject in a press conference .. then that family may have gained some solace in knowing their beloved might have helped others learn from his experience of a needless death.
As it ist .. the image of his death has not helped anyone .. und worsened an already weak relationship between Brunstrom's policing style und his weary subjects in Brunstromia.

und also caused a good working relationship between hard working cops und the public to deteriorate all the more
