dcbwhaley wrote:
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For the family at large as it now happens to be - we need a turbo charged bus

We are looking around for one.
My granny had a family of eight and never had a car. let alone a trbo charged bus

Ah .. but in fairness to the Mad Lad.. (who is one of a family unit of 8 "misfits"

- and I've met the whole ruddy lot of 'em but will make a personal comment that I think his sisters (Jazz and Julia) are just calming balm.. to him and his wife in their current "angst"
over life at large to them"
Both his sisters go pale when Ted/wife/ME or any of us get into the car with them

Jazz has said to our faces that..
she dreads our visits to her as she feels "inadequate" despite her IAM qualifacation .

But the woman's steady and secure in realistic safety terms.
I think Claire may well confirm as she did meet Jazz. I was hoping to join them at the "Milano"restaurant . that night .. . but ended up being co-erced to some other plod thing. Jazz was disappointed as she felt "at one with Claire on many issues . but unable to talk "driving at the same intense level of sheer expertise. Jazz is 100% womankind. Clever but no petrolhead - like us! I think a different era. Today . .we need to be everywhere \five minutes ago.". Ted likes to take his family out and about as a united group. They do live "off the beaten track by their own choice" though . and I can understand why they would want to "escape" - as they do live a very "intense professional life and family life".
He need some mode of transport to get all of them from A-B. He cannot do so on a bike. Wildy has not the stamina to do this on a bike. She's just too poorly to do so. dcb . WIldy is back in hospital for tests. and we are worried for her. The Mad Cats are playing it down.. but we we all worry just the same.
He has a Jag Estate. She has a high mileage sporty Jag .. which is not as practical as Ted's version of that beast.
They have a VW people carrier which does not cater in reality .. which is why they are now considering a "ruddy bus"

Now OK .. they do not need to foster other kids. but they do. . and this is to their credit as they HELP society by doing so,
I could not do what they do. But they still merit a really deserved pat on the back for at least trying to do what they can.
I think we can forgive their buoyant bubbling over a really nice Jag on that basis somehow? Eh . mate? And dcb.. we (three) all agree on many things with you We. may disagree on others. but where we may disagree on this and that . we still respect your views. I am saying then . do not judge the Mad Cats over harshly over their love of fast cars and "wants" -

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and ., breathe . and ... remember that that pair just adore and get excited over nice cars

You will never change them no matter how many buckets of cold water you pour over the pair of 'em
